Change happens. You will have broken relationships and friendships. You will get rejected at least once by something or someone you want. You will go to new schools, work at new jobs, and live in new places. You will do a thousand things in your life that can be associated with change. You will make changes for yourself, but I am more concerned with the changes that will unfortunately be made for you. People, including myself, are scared of this change and this is because it proves to be uncertain and uncomfortable. If there is anything I have learned it’s that change is good even when it seems to be bad, ESPECIALLY when you have no control over it.
Life happens. Period.
The one thing that you must understand is with uncontrollable change there must come a shift in perspective alongside it. Change happens for a reason- whether you ask for it or not. In order to adjust to it, perspective needs to be rewired otherwise you will be confining yourself to the same things for the rest of your life. As the world revolves and evolves so does your life. It’s easy to get tunnel vision and psych yourself up or want so badly for nothing to change because you think everything is perfect as it. Just remember to open your eyes, open your mind, and most importantly open your heart when change comes knocking on your door.
Live, learn, change, accept, grow, and keep living.
I believe in you.